There is something to be said for “mature” relationships! I thought about this, this morning. There I was in my bra and long pants lying on my bed with my feet in the air while my hubby was pulling on my boots for me. You see the one is an absolute bi@tch to get on. I started sniggering as I lay there thinking it is not a wonder our relationships move from butterflies in the tummy to well what mature relationships are….the comfort zone.
I mean how on this green earth is this man meant to have any sexy thoughts (albeit my bra is super sexy today J) – here I am lying as un-elegant as they come getting my feet shoved in to my shoes. But I dare say there was a moment of warmth there as all of a sudden it hit me like a sledge hammer – yes we may not want to rip each other’s clothes off like in the beginning , but rather now we have moved on to squeezing each other into boots and clothes, reading labels for the other as eyes deteriorate, the little things that come with age J. So the warmth, well no it wasn’t a slip of pee pee, we not that mature yet, but there is a warmth that comes from knowing someone so well. A warmth in having to not try impress someone all the time but just having them love you and loving them as they are with muffin tops, grey hairs and even chunky ankles.
So with renewed belief I raise my glass(es) back up my nose to mature relationships!
love it....
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